Despite a famous surname and a successful debut, Arjun Kapoor has quietly endured years of grief, public scrutiny, professional setbacks and personal battles—most of them fought away from the spotlight.
Success and failure often arrive hand in hand, but not everyone is emotionally prepared to meet them. Sometimes success comes too soon, when grief is still raw. At other times, applause is loud, fame is visible, yet the heart is too heavy to celebrate. Few actors in Bollywood embody all these contradictions as starkly as Arjun Kapoor.
Born into one of Hindi cinema’s most prominent families, Arjun made his acting debut at 27 with Ishaqzaade in 2012. The film was a major success—an enviable launch by any standard. But weeks before its release, tragedy struck. Arjun lost his mother, Mona Shourie, his emotional anchor since her separation from filmmaker Boney Kapoor in 1995. Her death marked the beginning of a long, solitary battle—one Arjun would largely fight in silence.
Reflecting on his childhood during a conversation with entrepreneur Raj Shamani, Arjun described growing up too fast. “I had an interesting childhood. I grew up very quickly. I realised I had to be responsible and not problematic for my mother because I knew what was going on,” he said, referring to his parents’ highly publicised separation and his father’s subsequent marriage to superstar Sridevi—a union that drew intense public attention.
At just 10, Arjun suppressed his emotions to protect his mother and look after his younger sister, Anshula Kapoor. But the pain found other outlets. “I was very good academically till fifth grade. Then the split happened. I couldn’t throw tantrums, but I lost interest in education as a form of rebellion,” he recalled. Food became a coping mechanism. “I started using food to fill the void. I became obsessed with eating,” he admitted, revealing how emotional trauma led to weight struggles during his teenage years.
Then came Ishaqzaade—success arriving at the worst possible emotional moment. While the industry celebrated him, Arjun mourned privately. Work became his refuge. A string of successes followed: Gunday, 2 States, Finding Fanny, Ki & Ka, Half Girlfriend. Stardom seemed secure.
But once again, life intervened. A serious medical diagnosis—Hashimoto’s disease, an autoimmune condition—was followed by a relentless run of box-office failures: Namaste England, Panipat, Sandeep Aur Pinky Faraar, Sardar Ka Grandson, Bhoot Police, Ek Villain Returns, Kuttey and The Lady Killer. With failure came trolling, and with trolling came deep self-doubt.
On his mother’s birth anniversary, Arjun penned a raw, emotional post:
“Happy birthday Maa, I miss you so much today. Life’s been kinda cruel to me lately but it’s ok… I’ve taken the punches before, I’ll take them again & still rise.”
Addressing the ongoing debate around nepotism, Arjun pushed back against the assumption of an easy life. “My past is very tricky. There’s a lot of baggage and trauma. People think we had it easy. But why do you think it’s easy for me to live this life?” he said.
He added quietly, “At least most people have parents to go back to. I don’t. I was 25 when my mother was diagnosed with cancer. I may have privileges, but I don’t have the most valuable thing you do—a mother.”
Despite his lineage, Arjun stressed that he became financially independent early. “Since Ishaqzaade, I have not taken a single penny from my father,” he said. But repeated professional failures pushed him into a dark phase. “There was a time I couldn’t get out of bed. I was dying to go on set,” he revealed, adding that Singham Again helped him rediscover joy in the process of filmmaking.
In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter, Arjun opened up about therapy. “I started therapy last year. I didn’t even realise I was depressed. I just knew something wasn’t working. I stopped enjoying films—and cinema is my life.”
Stress, he explained, worsened his autoimmune condition. “It’s a disease where your own antibodies fight your body. The calmer I am, the better I look.”
As if professional and health struggles weren’t enough, Arjun also navigated a highly public breakup with Malaika Arora. Therapy became a lifeline. “One therapist finally diagnosed me with mild depression,” he shared.
Ironically, redemption arrived when expectations were at their lowest. His performance as an antagonist in Rohit Shetty’s Singham Again drew praise—even if the film itself didn’t become a blockbuster. “People judge me based on my surname and personal life,” he said. “They wanted me to fail.”
He also spoke about being misunderstood. “I don’t smile much, so people think I’m arrogant. I’m actually very private. My sarcasm and straight-faced humour are often misread.”
At one point, insecurity even drove performative choices. “I bought a Maserati when I was struggling—just to show people I was successful. Now I realise how irrelevant that was,” he admitted.
Today, Arjun speaks openly about regret, fear and healing. “Sometimes I feel I should have educated myself more. I realised its value much later,” he said. His biggest fear remains loss. “I always feel everyone will eventually leave. That’s something I’m working on.”
Arjun Kapoor was last seen in Mere Husband Ki Biwi, which failed at the box office. But his journey reveals a deeper truth—he has stumbled, been written off, and broken down. Yet each time, he has chosen to stand back up.
And fight.
